Herbal Bean-Potato Salad

How would you have answered? I just came back from town, brought a friend over to my house…first time. When he asked if he should remove his shoes, I said , “Oh, that’s okay, ’cause the dogs have already been running in and out.” Half hour later, while we were in the kitchen, he looked down at the floor and said, “Your floor is dirty.”                                              I didn’t know what to say, too many ways to answer. I think I said, “Oh, that’s okay” or something. But then he said, ‘Cleanliness is next to Godliness, Dorothy.”                              Wow, how would you have answered?    “As a single mom, the rule in my house was, if you pointed out dirt, you had to clean it.”      But since that time, I’ve thought of other response. What do you think of these?                                                                                                                            “Oh?”

“After a lifetime of cleaning for others, I choose when to clean. ”                                           “Yeah, with the dogs and living in the country, it needs it three times a day, ha ha. Better for me not to get neurotic. about it.”                                                                                                                                                          “Who stands in someone else’s house and points out dirt? My friends never do.  They wouldn’t want me to point it out in their houses, haha!” 

I think now, a week later, knowing the person, I would have liked to have said, “You know, there are so many ways to be next to Godliness. Sometimes you make order and space in your house. Sometimes you choose to meditate instead of cleaning.  Sometimes you have to respect the pain in your body, and know it’s better to rest. No matter how much you’d like your house to be beautifully clean. Sometimes you choose to be with the person standing there, listening well, instead of cleaning.”                                                                                                                                                               What would you have said?


Recipe of the Day –
Bean Potato Salad

Ingredients

    • 2 c. black, garbanzo or red beans
    • 1 c. green beans
    • 1/4 c. fresh parsley leaves with tender stems
    • 1/4 c. olive oil
    • 3 T. green onions
    • 1 c. chopped, cooked, cold potatoes
    • 1 T. finely grated lemon zest
    • Juice of 1/2 lemon
    • 1/2 tsp. black pepper or 1/4 tsp. crushed red pepper flakes
    • Salt

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